By Carol Allen
Have you ever noticed that you can't control
who you're attracted to or have chemistry with?
You can meet someone that seems perfect in
every way - he has a solid job, good friends, a great family,
and yet - he doesn't send your heart aflutter.
You can even go on the perfect date with such
a man - complete with an incredible meal at a romantic restaurant
in which he orders your favorite foods, makes you laugh,
is kind to the wait staff, and looks deeply into your eyes
while listening fully to your hopes and dreams.
It's so wonderful to be with him, so fulfilling
in every way.
And then at the end of the night he goes to
kiss you and it's about as much fun as making out with a
You feel NOTHING - no spark, no butterflies,
In fact, the only excitement you feel is at
the thought of his face getting away from yours...
Don't you HATE it when that happens?
And you're so crushed, because you could actually
BE HAPPY with this man - FINALLY.
And you think THAT MUST BE IT - you must be
SCARED or NOT READY for THE REAL THING - so you're shutting
down your sexy side.
That HAS to be the problem - it's YOU. You're
BLOCKED or something.
So you go out with him again on another fantastic
date, and again kissing him is like that dirty sock, only
now it's not just dirty - it's also soggy.
There must be something you can do!
Perhaps you've been fortunate and not endured
the torture of meeting Mr. "I should marry this guy as long
as he doesn't touch me."
Perhaps you've experienced a different challenge.
You've met a man with NOTHING you want in
terms of a resume.
He has a crappy job, complains endlessly about
his mother, badmouths his friends, and doesn't impress you
intellectually in the least, but you find him so completely
HANDSOME that you can't resist...
When he so much as brushes your knees with
his it's as if your whole body is hit with an electric current.
And the kissing - it's like everything else
around you falls away and you slip into an alternate reality
in which life is neon and beautiful.
You can literally kiss him for hours - you
much prefer it to talking to him as it's so much more enjoyable
than his lame conversation.
And such an amazing thing happens when his
lips meet yours - every cell in your brain does a happy
dance and screams:
Pretty soon you're actually falling for Mr.
"I hate everybody and have no life," and don't know how
you'll possibly get away from him.
Don't you HATE it when that happens?
Again, you think that you're sexually drawn
to such a loser because you have a huge problem with SELF-SABOTAGE.
Clearly, you don't feel you deserve more than
this, so are chemically hooking YOURSELF to such an impossible
man because something inside of you WANTS to be unhappy.
Both situations like these with men make you
feel betrayed by your own body.
It's like something alien or outside of you
is really in charge.
Like you've been BODY SNATCHED and are utterly
out of physical control.
Don't you WISH you could willingly turn your
attraction for a man on and off?
You know, as though you had internal HOT SEX
dials that you could program to only be activated by a great
man with wonderful qualities?
Here's the phenomenal thing - I'm going to
tell you what this is all about.
Pay attention because this one idea could
save you YEARS of misery of being in relationships with
a great guy who does NOTHING for you physically, or a LOUSY
guy who has too much sexual power over you.
I'm serious... I have the answer. (Don't I
Your sexual chemistry with someone IS determined
by something outside of you.
Something you can do NOTHING about.
And this something determines if that "zing"
is there with a man or not.
And this is GREAT NEWS because if it's not
there, you can STOP beating yourself up and thinking it's
because you're BLOCKED or AFRAID or have intimacy issues.
You can stop going out with a man thinking
that if you would just open up then any minute now that
HOT MONKEY LOVE thing is going to kick in and you can be
And best of all - if a man tells you he's
NOT as attracted to YOU as he wants to be, you can forget
about thinking it's because of something wrong with you.
Like your love handles that no one seems to
Or your thighs.
Or your wide hips.
Or knobby knees.
Because MEN can't help who they are attracted
And they often feel body snatched and betrayed
by their own anatomy, TOO.
They wish they could control their physical
re- actions to US as well!
What’s to blame for all of this, you
The position of the planets and stars at the
time of your birth.
There’s a planet that indicates PASSION
and another that rules SENSUALITY.
There’s a planet of KINKINESS (swear!)
and another of frigidity.
Certain signs are more frisky, while others
are more conservative.
There are constellations of stars that influence
a person's nature to be more WILD and EXPERI- MENTAL or
SQUARE and TRADITIONAL.
So depending on which planets are dominant
and strongest in your chart and in which constellations,
you'll be either a vixen with a capital "V" or a demure
That's right - your own sexual nature, aptitudes,
preferences, and appetite as well as EVERYONE ELSE'S can
be understood and explained astrologically.
Your astrological chart tells the whole story.
But here's the MOST IMPORTANT ISSUE:
You chart can then be lined up with another
person's to see if there are connections that heighten or
dampen the MOJO between the two of you.
Basically explaining if you want to rip his
clothes off on a regular basis, or if the most you can muster
is to love him like a brother.
I'm NOT making this up!
So - the lame guy that you find yourself strangely,
inexplicably, even shamefully HOT for?
His planet of passion will be placed in the
same sign as your planet of sensuality - which is so hot
that even just thinking about it is making me need a cold
shower about now.
And Mr. "Kisses like a dirty, soggy sock?"
In his astrological chart the planet of kissing
will be with the planet of dirty, soggy socks.
Okay, I made that up.
In the ancient books of astrology there is
no mention of a planet of socks, dirty or otherwise...
But I'm sure there is a such a planet so I'm
gonna go research that just as soon as I get out of that
cold shower and get back to you. ('Cause something HAS to
explain those tragically bad kissers.)
NONE of this is PERSONAL. It's just WHAT IS
Kinda like how grass is green and birds fly.
Those things aren't personal - they just ARE.
And none of this is anything you can do anything
And that's what I want you to know more than
The bond you feel physically with another
person is CRITICAL to the success or failure of your romantic
relationship or POTENTIAL romantic relationship.
When there’s a powerful, PASSIONATE
connection between you and someone you love (which CANNOT
be manufactured, by the way!), you'll be far happier and
even healthier than if there is not.
That is IF they also have the qualities that
But as you’ve figured out by now, you'll
be MISERABLE if you're in heaven between the sheets but
nowhere else with a man.
Please DO NOT minimize how important this
You must have BOTH good chemistry with a man
who has GOOD QUALITIES.
So do not give a relationship that lacks that
physical MAGIC too much of your precious time and energy.
It's true that nervousness, shyness, inexperience
or that initial awkwardness of getting "up close and personal"
with someone new can make early encounters less than perfect.
But they should improve QUICKLY.
So, give a guy a couple of chances, maybe
three or four, but if it gets to the point where no matter
what he does you're not “feeling it” - as though
he's taking a BLOW TORCH to your gas burners and they’re
NOT IGNITING - then give yourself and the poor fellow a
break already and MOVE ON!
I’ve talked to many women who thought
that passion and sex weren't critical in a healthy romantic
relationship - that they were lucky to find a good man to
love who loved them back, and with whom they could build
Some of these women even thought that it was
more "spiritual" to be in a passionless relationship.
So they squelched their natural, primal needs,
and gave up this important part of love.
Sometimes they were able to do this for a
Even for years. But eventually, one day, they
are always HORRIFIED to find that just because they’d
made a CONSCIOUS, CEREBRAL CHOICE to deny that part of themselves
- a part that is UNCONSCIOUS and NON-CEREBRAL, by the way
- it didn't die.
They ALWAYS inevitably meet someone else that
turns them on and reminds them of the power of that which
they've tried to leave behind.
And then they HATE themselves for having to
leave the good man they've tried to make a life with.
Or for leading a double life.
Or for staying and hating it.
In other words, there’s no happy ending
to these stories.
And I've talked to many other women who were
magnetically pulled to a man they didn't otherwise want,
but couldn't find the strength to say no to.
They kept telling themselves they'd indulge
for just a little while and then easily give him up, but
to their amazement they became attached, bonded, and STUCK
with a man they don't even LIKE.
So if this happens to you - if you’re
knocked out by the physical fireworks you feel when in the
presence of a man you are unimpressed with as a human being,
then please RUN, RUN, RUN away before it's too late.
And PLEASE don't ever give it another thought
if a man rejects you saying, "I'm just not feeling it for
you - I feel only friendship."
It's NOT because of your hair, or your clothes,
or your anything...
It's simply not written in the stars.
Astrology can explain everything about love
and romance and your relationships (and sex life!), offering
tremendous understanding and peace of mind.
When you understand the power of the planets
and stars to direct your life and loves, you can stop doing
what doesn't work - you can instead take comfort that you
are part of something bigger than yourself.
Much, much bigger.
When you align yourself with these forces,
you’ll be able to make the most that life and love
have in store for you, no longer wasting your time and heart
on circumstances and people that will never work.
This ancient knowledge is literally impacting
every facet of your life and love life every day, all day
long whether you believe in it or not.
I’ve worked with people as an astrologer
for almost two decades and have found time and again that
the underlying philosophies of astrology are every bit as
HELPFUL AND HEALING to people as the specific knowledge
of their own personal chart.
So, I’ve created a compatibility report
to help you find out if you and your man have that “meant
to be” connection. It’s called the Right Man
"The Right Man Report" will reveal if this
kind of SPECIAL SOMETHING is there between you and a man
- or not. ('Cause it can't be willed or manufactured into
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I sincerely believe this knowledge will bring
you a great deal of comfort and support in your journey
to find and keep the love you crave.
And may God and his planets and stars shower
you with love,