By Carol Allen
Tip: Do you ever wonder if you and a
man have enough DESTINY together to have the connection
you feel last?
Though it's important, it's not enough
to simply "get along" with a man - you want to have
a feeling that he's YOUR GUY - and that you're HIS
WOMAN and that you're SUPPOSED to be together, no
Believe it or not, this feeling of "rightness"
can be seen in your astrology charts. No kidding -
you can find out if you and a man have that "meant
to be" connection from a compatibility write-up called
"The Right Man Report."
"The Right Man Report" will reveal if
this kind of SPECIAL SOMETHING is there between you
and a man - or not. ('Cause it can't be willed or
manufactured into existence...)
Have you ever met a couple that told
you they JUST KNEW they were supposed to be together
the minute they met?
Well, I don't know about you, but I'm
a super nosey busy body (I'm sure this comes as a
I'm shameless, really. I'll ask anybody
It's part of why I love being an astrologer
- people tell me EVERYTHING.
That's right - I get THE INSIDE SCOOP
- the REAL DEAL going on with everyone.
It's pretty amazing, actually.
It's funny - even before I became an
astrologer, total strangers felt safe telling me deeply
personal secrets without my even asking.
I used to sell clothing in the Men's
Sportswear department of Nordstrom's, and there I'd
be showing a man neckties...
"Do you want the paisley or the striped?"
I'd ask, holding up options.
And instead of making a decision, the
customer would confess to me out of nowhere that he
was sleeping with his secretary and that his wife
was a cold fish.
"Uh huh..." I'd reply. "Um, I think
the paisley goes better with your jacket..."
My all-time favorite thing to talk to
strangers about is their relationships - especially
if they're happy.
And I just LOVE hearing how people met
and how they ended up together.
I just can't get enough of stories like
It's super sweet - strangers at a party
just light up at the question, and get really into
telling me every little detail.
One thing I've noticed in doing this,
is that it's extremely common for a couple to just
KNOW right away that they're going to be together.
We all give women so much credit for
having great intuition, but I gotta tell ya, I hear
this mostly from men.
"I knew the minute I saw her that she
was my wife," they reveal.
"Before I even looked at her face, I
could tell. Just from seeing the back of her head..."
I've heard more than once.
"I'd planned on never getting married,
but one look at my wife and I knew it was all over."
Seriously, men say these things - and
they're smiling as they say them! It's so adorable...
Their women didn't have to beg, or plead,
or convince, or cajole to get them to commit or marry
The men were fully on board with just
Now, some stories I hear take longer
to "get going."
Some relationships sneak up on people.
I love those stories, too.
A couple will tell me, "You know - I
didn't take it very seriously at first. I mean, we
had nothing in common. This just wasn't the way I
expected it to happen at all. And yet, it just kept
getting better and better, and over time I gave in
to what was happening... and I'm so glad."
My husband and I felt like that. We
were NOTHING like what the other expected.
I was a vegetarian, he's a die-hard
carnivore who loves to barbecue (while I have a moment
of silence for whatever poor animal is on the grill).
I was a straight-A student and LOVED
college, he dropped out of high school.
I'm a California New-Agey hippey chick
(another shock), and he is a Texas good old boy. (When
I started studying astrology and gave up sugar, he
was horrified - rent the movie "Spinal Tap" or Woody
Allen's "Husbands And Wives" and you'll see why...)
Worse than all that, however, was the
fact that he was one of those, "I'm NEVER getting
married" kind of men...
While I had been looking for my husband
since... oh, I don't know...
In fact, he gave me the "I'm NEVER getting
married" speech several times, but I wasn't worried
about it. I mean, he didn't match my "perfect husband"
list at all, so I wasn't going to marry him anyway.
I'd think to myself, "No problem, buddy.
You're my twenty-something fling... Some other woman
will be cooking you pot roast and it ain't gonna be
But there WAS a problem.
A BIG one.
We couldn't let each other go.
I like to say we grew on each other
- kinda like mold.
Despite what we both "thought," what
we FELT told a different story.
We FELT like we were supposed to be
together - forever.
In fact, the minute I saw him, before
we even so much as said hello, I heard a voice in
my head say, "This is gonna be BIG."
And he now tells me that despite his
protestations, I always felt like his WIFE.
And it was all in our stars...
Why? There's a connection that is often
present between two people's Moon constel- lations
(the smaller cluster of stars within a sign - basically
a "sub-sign") called "Mahendra," which in Sanscrit
means "Great Spirit."
This connection makes two people feel
a strong sense of purpose together. (In fact, it's
referred to as "Sense of Purpose" in "The Right Man
Over time, their relationship takes
on a deeper and deeper sense of meaning.
It just feels right.
And me and my crazy hubby have such
Now, I've seen this "Sense of Purpose"
work against people, too.
If a couple doesn't have enough fundamental
compatibility, if they're not on enough of the same
wavelength, then they won't be able to be happy together,
but Mahendra will make them feel like they ARE SUPPOSED
TO BE TOGETHER, anyway.
So they won't be able to get their needs
met but they won't be able to give each other up,
These are the most frustrated, unhappy
clients that I work with.
And they just don't get what's going
Which is why I LOVE the technique used
in "The Right Man Report."
It breaks a relationship down into fifteen
elements, explaining exactly what's happening - or
not happening between two people.
Because, as I just explained, it's not
ENOUGH to feel that your love is MEANT TO BE.
You have to be able to GET ALONG and
have positive MOVEMENT FORWARD as a couple.
And couples that feel DESTINED but can't
work together to build a productive life that makes
them both happy feel BOUND together like they're stuck
to each other with CRAZY GLUE...
And it's CRAZY making.
And so confusing, because when you feel
that "THIS IS IT" feeling, it can make you go against
what is happening in the relation- ship.
It can make you give a man YOUR ALL,
and work way too hard to be with him, and deny what
you need, because you think that "THIS IS IT" feeling
On the other hand, if you can get along
with a man, but don't share a deep, spiritual, soul
connection with him - then you may find that months
or years down the road you grow apart and don't have
enough of anything holding you together (besides "stuff"
So, the happiest couples have both.
(And yes, since I keep boring you with
my life story - my hubby and I are so blessed. WHEW.)
"The Right Man Report" can tell you
this and so much more...
Find out if you and a man are on the
same wavelength, and if you have that intangible,
special something that will make your life together
long lasting and meaningful...
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And may God and his planets and stars
shower you with love!