By Carol Allen
Tip: The most important thing in any relationship
is how you FEEL with that person.
But there's just one little problem - your
feelings constantly CHANGE, and may be LYING to you...
They can also BIND you to someone you FEEL
you're supposed to be with but who only leaves you feeling
bad, or keep you from feeling connected to the man who
would treat you well.
So, what's a girl to do?
Check out the stars, of course!
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report that's based on an astonishing technique that's
almost as old as the stars themselves to see if a relationship
can make you feel good without costing you your heart
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Technology is such a great thing.
If it weren't for technology, we'd have
no way to communicate like this...
Okay, if you lived within a few miles of
me, it's true that I COULD send out smoke signals, or
homing pigeons with messages tied to their feet, or magical
owls with personal letters to you like in the Harry Potter
books and movies, but the likelihood is we'd never connect
Now, years ago I actually sat on my floor
in my living room and stapled and stuffed newsletters
into envelopes, labeled and stamped them, and lugged them
down to the post office. That was a lot of work! And you
can bet I didn't send them out every few days - it was
every few months.
When email came along I couldn't believe
how easy it was to stay in touch with people.
In a matter of moments I could contact thousands
of people at a time...
It's crazy, but in the Vedas (some of the
ancient spiritual books of India, from which comes the
system of astrology I practice and keep writing to you
about) it talks about the different cycles of time here
on planet earth.
Right now our little ball of dirt is in
a tough cycle (you've probably noticed) but also a time
And I gotta tell ya - computers are magical.
(As are televisions, and cars, and airplanes,
and washing machines...)
Take for example, these compatibility reports
I've been blathering about now for months.
When I first decided to offer them as a
way for women to check to see how they'd feel in a specific
relationship with a specific man, I wasn't sure what to
The idea was for the reports to make it
easy for a woman to have the answers she needed without
having to contact a professional astrologer like me, while
getting that caliber of advice and information.
A good idea - but could it actually work?
Could technology actually replace face or
phone time with Yours Truly?
(And would that really be a good thing?)
Well, I'm happy to say that I can be outsourced
Feedback from real live women who've tried
out The Right Man Report has been really great, and I'm
actually very happy that this knowledge can be offered
in this magical way...
(So that I can reach more of you for a fraction
of your time and moolachki. You know - your cabbage...
Just this week I've received some great
letters about people's results that have helped me to
feel ever more grateful to technology, so here are a couple:
* * * * * * * * * *
What a relief too look at all of this in
reality; your report was wonderful. It really was accurate.
It's like a burden is lifted off our shoulders when you
realize how discombulated it is the way people have traditionally
looked at composites and given the whole relationship
over to that... I have been following astrology like that
for 17 yrs. and you are right!!
best to you,
Isn't that crazy? Thanks, Susan!
When Susan says, "looking at composites"
she's talking about a chart created between two charts,
that reveals the destiny of that relationship.
This is a Western astrology technique, and
I've actually found it to be pretty darn accurate.
Astrology is soooooo vast and wonderful
and full of endlessly helpful tricks and techniques.
It's just that Susan, being a longtime student
of astrology, GETS IT...
For relationships, there's NOTHING like
the the technique used in The Right Man Report.
For years I used composites, and what's
called "synastry" which is when you overlay two charts
on top of each other and look to how the different planets
and houses between two people connect to tell you about
their relationship - and they work.
But the fifteen steps of The Right Man Report
blow that stuff out of the water...
In fact, I've had many other astrologers
contact me utterly mystified about their own relationships,
not understanding why they are the way that they are.
And until I learned how to accurately apply
this ancient, often confused wisdom, I didn't have much
new to tell them of value.
It was like being a doctor without being
able to run blood tests. I could look in their ears, and
listen to their heart, but I couldn't check their liver
fat levels, or their cholesterol, or their triglycerides.
In fact, until there was such a thing as
blood tests, doctors had no way to know what was going
on with such aspects of a person's health, and so couldn't
tell their patients what to do, what to avoid, or even
what was wrong with them.
It's like that. The Right Man Report is
like doing a blood lab workup for your relationship.
Or a pap smear...
Or a mammogram.
You get where I'm going here.
So, most other astrologers don't know this
Why do I? Because the best thing in my chart
is the 9th house, which gives the best teachers, mentors,
and access to THE TRUTH.
Which comes in handy in my particular field
Now, sometimes I get bad feedback on The
Right Man Report. Anyone who orders one can keep it and
not be charged a dime if they just notify me and say,
"Thanks, but no thanks."
It's been so nice to discover that very
few people actually want their money back.
But I've noticed a pattern with those that
do - most of their reports that tell them they're in a
In other words, they don't like BAD NEWS.
(And really, who can blame them?)
The hardest thing about my job is delivering
bad news, whether it's the REAL me, or the technical me!
(At least if you're sitting in my office,
I can hand you a Kleenex tissue, and we can go make margaritas
in my kitchen after the session...)
But here's why I got over hating delivering
bad news long ago.
It's actually a HUGE relief to people to
discover that whatever isn't working in their life perhaps
isn't all THEIR FAULT.
And that's how it works with compatibility.
Sometimes you can't make a square peg fit
into a round hole... (unless, of course, the peg is much
smaller than the hole, but I'm getting off point).
And I learned LONG AGO that knowing such
things is EVERY BIT as valuable as getting a lot of great
news that makes you wanna do the happy dance.
And I've actually found that sometimes clients
appreciate their bad news...
Take for example this second letter:
Thank you for the Vedic reading...it seems
to be very accurate... It began with the caveat that we
were both antisocial and that it boded ill for Relationship.
That all the favorable points, of which there were many
[scoring high in Wavelength dept.] would only occasionally
emerge in the face of the Moon stresses. The entire profile
seemed so right on...
I just don't want it to be!
I guess I am asking you, are the antisocial
Moons insurmountable? What advice would you give me re:
this? I am going to recommend your service to others as
this has been most eye-opening.
Marsha also gets it. I LOVE working with
people who can admit things like this, and want to know
As for her question as to the weak links
in the report being insurmountable - here's what I think...
I have found after doing this work for seventeen
years, and having many clients come to me year after year
after year - some for over a decade - that this stuff
And there's not a lot we can do to change
That said, I'm also a big believer in the
power of LOVE and the possibility for MIRACLES.
My life is full of them!
So, here's what I tell women every day.
If you feel you MUST do something, then
If you feel a huge connection to a man,
but your report says you'll have huge challenges but you
don't want to give him up - then DON'T.
The reports were not designed to tell you
who to marry or break up with.
They are to help you SEE what your dynamics
are with another human being with OPEN EYES.
I want them to INFORM your decisions, not
make them for you.
I want them to help you to ZOOM OUT and
see a relationship from a higher perspective, and be more
of a witness to it all, so you can then take the appropriate
As for what I'd advise Marsha - my best
advice would be to tell her to become a RELATIONSHIP SAVANT.
Relationship savants are rare.
These are incredibly healthy, wise, evolved
people who have grown beyond their own wounds and egos,
to be able to have a great relationship despite problems
These are the FEW clients that I've worked
with over the years who have had very hard dynamics in
their "Right Man Report" with a man, and they KNEW IT,
but they weren't caught up in the drama of it all.
In fact, they were happy with him anyway,
and they, "let love rule."
How did they do it?
What was their secret?
I don't know exactly, but ALL of them had
fantastic relationship skills.
They inspired me to learn all that I could
about how to DO RELATIONSHIPS.
And I learned amazing things...
I learned that as much as fifty percent
of all couples who end up divorced would NOT have ended
up divorced, if they just took a weekend seminar with
one of the top marriage institutes in the world (the Gottman
Institute of Seattle, Washington) and learned good relationship
I learned that there are RULES to relationships
and that if you follow the rules, relationships tend to
I learned that even bad relationships can
become better, good ones can become great, and great ones
can become transcendent - if at least ONE person learns
how to lead the way to love.
So I put the best of what I learned onto
a double CD set called, "Soulmate Secrets - The Essential
Relationship Skills Happy Couples Use To Stay Close And
(I also explain many of these rules on my
free newsletters. You
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And it covers all you need to know to be
that rare, special, truly magical thing - a relationship
So Marsha - that's what I'd do.
And then see how "antisocial" you guys feel.
You owe it to yourself to find out.
Because you deserve to have love be worth
it - not necessarily easy - but worth it.
May God and his planets and stars shower
you with love!